Our Story & Mission
Founding Story
Violet Counseling was founded in Dallas, TX in early 2025 to provide affirming, identity-conscious therapy for those who struggle to exist in systems not built for them. Many face barriers like culturally incompetent care, burnout from over-explaining themselves, or feeling like traditional therapy doesn’t align with their neurodivergence. We created a space where emotions like grief, anger, and resistance aren’t pathologized—they’re understood as part of being human.
Our Mission
At Violet Counseling, we believe people aren’t broken—they’re responding to a world that doesn’t always make space for them. Our mission is to help you build self-trust, self-understanding, and a life aligned with your authentic self.
Meet Nick Wilson (Founder & Therapist)
As a queer, non-binary therapist, I know firsthand how alienating it can be to navigate identity later in life. My journey—from job-hopping in my 20s to embracing my true self—shapes my approach. I don’t believe in rigid labels; I believe in helping you find comfort in ambiguity and becoming the person you want to be.
Why Choose Violet Counseling?
Understanding the Community
We don’t just offer therapy—we provide lived understanding. Whether it’s workplace pressures, family dynamics, or the ache of feeling unseen, we get it.
What Sets Us Apart
- Narrative Therapy Approach – You’re not a problem to fix. We help you rewrite stories that no longer serve you.
- Affirming & Flexible – Walk-and-talk sessions, sliding scale options, and virtual visits to meet your needs.
- For Queer & Neurodivergent Folks – No over-explaining required. We speak your language.
Our Commitment to You
- Accessibility – Sliding scale, flexible scheduling, virtual sessions.
- Transparency – No jargon, just clear communication.
- Effectiveness – Evidence-based, tailored care—no one-size-fits-all solutions.
- Affirmation – A safe space for LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and marginalized clients.
Our Therapeutic Approach & Core Value
Narrative Therapy in Action
Imagine a bookshelf filled with stories about you—some written by you, others imposed by family, society, or past experiences. In our sessions, we’ll explore those stories together, deciding which to keep, rewrite, or let go. You’re the author here; we just help you reclaim the pen.
A Human-Centered Experience
Therapy shouldn’t feel like a clinical interrogation. At Violet Counseling, sessions are conversational, dynamic, and deeply human. We embrace:
- Laughter – Healing doesn’t have to be solemn.
- Silence – Some truths need space to breathe.
- Messiness – Growth isn’t tidy, and that’s okay.
- Curiosity – We’ll follow the threads others might ignore.
Values That Guide Us
- Collaborative → You’re the expert on your life. We’re here to help you make sense of it.
- Compassionate → No judgment, just warmth and understanding for your struggles and growth.
- Curious → We ask questions to help you uncover your own answers.
- Fun → Yes, therapy can include silliness! Joy is part of healing, too.
Got Questions? We've Got Answers! (FAQs)
Many LGBTQIA+ people ("late-in-life queer," "delayed self-discovery") don’t have language for their identity until adulthood. As a therapist who came out as non-binary later in life, I specialize in:
- Grief & confusion – Mourning the "lost time" or straight-passing privilege.
- Joy & liberation – Celebrating your authenticity, even if it arrived "late."
- Navigating queer spaces – Feeling "not queer enough"? We’ll unpack that.
Neurodivergent queer folks (autistic, ADHD, sensory-sensitive) often struggle with:
- Masking burnout – Exhaustion from pretending to be "normal."
- Rigid therapy structures – Sitting still? Eye contact? Nope. We adjust.
- Literal communication – No vague "How does that make you feel?" nonsense.
My approach: Movement-friendly sessions, stim toys welcome, and clear, jargon-free dialogue.
Religious harm (conversion therapy, purity culture, family rejection) leaves deep wounds. Here’s how we heal:
- Decolonizing spirituality – Keep faith? Ditch it? Your choice.
- Anger as sacred – Rage at hypocrisy is healthy.
- Rebuilding safety – Boundaries with religious family, finding queer-affirming communities.
100% yes. Your safety comes first. We’ll:
- Use gender-neutral language in notes/billing.
- Explore discreet support options (e.g., virtual sessions, coded journaling).
- Process the loneliness, fear, or guilt of closeted life—without pressure.
Queer love ("throuples," "non-monogamous," "kink-aware") thrives outside heteronormative rules. I help with:
- Communication hacks – Ditch the "active listening" scripts.
- Jealousy ≠ failure – It’s data about unmet needs.
- Systems navigation – Legal rights, family drama, or societal stigma.
Getting Started: Your First Step Towards Authentic Living
