Therapy That Honors Your Whole Self

As a queer and neurodivergent therapist, I specialize in helping you untangle the stories that keep you small. Whether you’re navigating gender identity, religious trauma, or just the exhaustion of masking your true self, we’ll work together to build a life that actually fits. Sessions are tailored to your needs—because therapy shouldn’t require you to perform ‘normality’ to benefit."

As a queer and neurodivergent therapist, I specialize in helping you untangle the stories that keep you small. Whether you’re navigating gender identity, religious trauma, or just the exhaustion of masking your true self, we’ll work together to build a life that actually fits. Sessions are tailored to your needs—because therapy shouldn’t require you to perform ‘normality’ to benefit."

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Why Choose Violet Counseling?

Understanding the Community


We don’t just offer therapy—we provide lived understanding. Whether it’s workplace pressures, family dynamics, or the ache of feeling unseen, we get it.

What Sets Us Apart

  • Narrative Therapy Approach – You’re not a problem to fix. We help you rewrite stories that no longer serve you.
  • Affirming & Flexible – Walk-and-talk sessions, sliding scale options, and virtual visits to meet your needs.
  • For Queer & Neurodivergent Folks – No over-explaining required. We speak your language.

Our Commitment to You

  • Accessibility – Sliding scale, flexible scheduling, virtual sessions.
  • Transparency – No jargon, just clear communication.
  • Effectiveness – Evidence-based, tailored care—no one-size-fits-all solutions.
  • Affirmation – A safe space for LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and marginalized clients.

Got Questions? We've Got Answers! (FAQs)

Can therapy help if I'm LGBTQ+ but still feel guilty about 'sinful' religious teachings?

Absolutely. We specialize in:

  • Untangling internalized shame from queer identity
  • Rebuilding self-worth without religious conditions
  • Creating new spiritual frameworks (or rejecting spirituality altogether)

You'll find zero pressure to "choose sides" - just space to heal on your terms.

What if my anxiety makes it hard to even talk in sessions?

Many neurodivergent clients worry about this. At Violet Counseling:

  • You can type responses instead of speaking
  • Bring fidget/stim tools
  • Use our "stoplight" system (red/yellow/green cards) to communicate comfort levels
  • Take movement breaks during telehealth sessions
I'm not 'out' at work/church/home - can we still discuss gender identity safely?

Yes. We protect your privacy by:

  • Using your preferred name/pronouns only in session
  • Helping craft "safe" language for dual-life situations
  • Never pushing you to come out before you're ready
Do you help with the anger part of grief? I'm tired of being told to 'find peace.'

Anger is welcome here. We'll:

  • Explore its protective role without spiritual bypassing
  • Channel rage into creative/embodied practices (no forced forgiveness)
  • Honor how anger often masks deeper wounds
Can we focus on career stress if my ADHD makes traditional jobs impossible?

Specialty support for neurodivergent work struggles includes:

  • Identifying workplace accommodations
  • Navigating disclosure decisions
  • Building "masking recovery" routines
  • Exploring unconventional career paths that fit your brain
    No more pretending to thrive in broken systems.

Getting Started: Your First Step Towards Authentic Living

Taking the first step into therapy can feel huge, and sometimes a little overwhelming. But you don’t have to do it alone. All you need to do is reach out and show up. I'm here to meet you exactly where you are, with warmth, curiosity, and a commitment to helping you make sense of your story.
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